Also, being strong-willed, she just didnt like it when her husband tried to insist on things she didnt want to do and she felt compelled to go along with his ideas, even when she wasnt fully behind them. Im always trying to keep my marriage alive by spicing up our sex life and booking weekends away with my husband, but it often seems boring and routine. Well I asked my husband if we were going to try again and he said were too old and shouldnt roll the dice. The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of What to Expect. If you give yourself permission to live the life you want without his blessing, and get to live it, it is very likely you wont find him as irritating as you do now you might even warm to him again. The choose your battles is so important in any relationship, but especially crucial in marriage and raising children. 12. It was clear to me there was dysfunction in her marriage. I have a 1 year old and I'm 8 weeks pregnantI don't know if it's because I'm extra tired or what but with my first pregnancy I wasn't such an asshole. But it is possible for him to change, especially now that he's retiring. Im ambitious and want to be free to do things. I try to calm myself and be nicer but I'm finding it extremely hard. It might seem annoying , but hes helping and sounds active in the household. Of course, her husband wanted their sex life to improve. If you think seeing a therapist will help, then do it! For the last while every time he comes near me I flinch and when he touches me I literally get shivers, and not in a good way. This is so funny. He did laundry last weekend and left the babys clothes in the basket! Is my husbands reaction to my drunken mistake his way of telling me that we are just best friends? Whats often not taught to men are good listening skills. If you dont already have kids, run. I have type II diabetes this time around so we were induced Dec 1st at 39+2. Im 39 Well these last ten days have definitely been a rollercoaster. Usually he has at least one escort sometimes up to 3 or 4 depending what's going on how many loads are traveling together or what not. Other husbands want to avoid the stress at home, so they pour themselves into their work. Omg I am so annoyed with him especially when he says how do you expect me to to that while I have the baby. But for a marriage to work, both partners must respect each others priorities and provide support when needed. Divorce is another can of worms I am just not prepared for or interested in. We survived we've been together now 9 years and expecting baby number three! Any abuse is a total red flag. The question We married young and quickly after a whirlwind summer. No thanks! You get the impression your husband is lazy and blind to the household needs. Anyway, lets get back to my client. He might feel hes going to screw things up, so why even try? Resist the judgement. If your husband is working overtime to avoid being at home, talk with him about his frustrations. I already have BOrderline personality disorder, so I don't bond well or have relationships. What helps me is asking myself a few questions: 1) would this be annoying if anyone else was doing it? I hated the way he smelt, ate and his shampoo oh my gosh I threw it away! Saying and doing simple and kind things each and every day to and for each other is a powerful love potion. I swear, if I see one more dryer sheet on the floor . . I think it surprised my husband and now he's kinda walking on eggshells and being extra cautious haha. We are lucky to have husbands and so we aren't going through pregnancy and raising a child alone. The #1 app for tracking pregnancy and baby growth. He may even discover that his world does not fall apart when you get more of your needs met and reach for your goals. A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. I am CONSTANTLY cleaning up something. Its no use women keeps coming to the table if men are not reading the concerns. Otherwise you dont really know what he needs. I have zero interest in sex with a man unless there is a high level of positive emotional attraction. I really dont want to but I dont think I love him in the same way as I use to. Men are fixers. I have so much respect for those women bc it's not easy raising children with my husband helping!! I dont remember this happening when I was pregnant with our first. Ask Philippa Marriage. Oh well, lol. Glad there is a place where we can spill our problems without hurting our relationships, yup exact same thing happened to me, if he even looked at me wrong i wouldnt wanna talk to him for 3 days, god forbid he say no to a food i was craving or didnt jump up immediately to help me if i needed it. I can't stand him. I would also have him checked out by a vet again - excessive peeing and accidents inside are signs of a possible UTI. He thinks thats all he needs to be. Is that because he just doesnt care about me sexually any more? I want to encourage you to be as sociable, ambitious and as adventurous as you like but I expect you still want his blessing. Them taking baby should give us a break but suddenly I find myself being turned into a personal assistent or something.. ugh sorry to add my vent to yours, guess I needed to let it out too , omg!!! Sustainable, mature love is more about caring and doing things for each other than the heady, infatuated initial stage. Bc he couldve left everything for you to do. Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. He sounds active. If you want something done YOUR way , you do it YOURSELF. Meaning you cant make ppl do things exactly our way. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. Kids love feeling helpful. When we argue he threatens me with kicking me out and putting me on the street. He can be so petty. Something is like wrong with men. When a couple grows apart, intimacy becomes challenging to maintain. Lol. In the beginning of the marriage, they both enjoyed making love frequently. If I'm cleaning, I'm going to finish the task and expect the same from my husband. Ive been keeping quiet rather than snapping at him constantly. Is your marriage worth saving, or is it time to walk away? Many problems that seem overwhelming can be solved with good communication and cooperation. I recommended she take a trip with some of her friends for several days. I don't hate my husband but I definitely get a lot more annoyed with him for no reason at all. Please select a reason for escalating this post to the WTE moderators: Connect with our community members by starting a discussion. Get away from him. He is withdrawing from you, and you're feeling alone. 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When she was born I totally missed him and wanted to cuddle him all the time. My Breastfeeding Toddler Doesn't Want to Wean. If money is not an issue, ask your husband to work fewer hours or change his schedule in a way that works for both of you. You can talk about how important it is that the two of you have intense and gratifying sex. Ready, here we go. Think about the reasons you love him and of how great he will be as a dad. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Group Leaders arent expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule. Not to the point that I hate him though. But, if its something like dirty clothes on the floor after he successfully gave your toddler a bath and the toddler is happy maybe let it go. We cant make clones of ourselves. According to your letter, you find her obnoxious. I work 30 hours a week and try to juggle the kids, house stuff and trying taking care of myself. Some women have lower expectations of men than others. It doesnt sound like he is going to agree that this is what you must do, but you can do it anyway. He has zero communication skills, almost no life skills and a massive drinking problem that he refuses to address. I've come to the realization that I just flat out do not like my wife anymore. Now that I'm further along I just can't stand him. Im due March 22 and over the past few months I get this random, less than a minute, feeling of my whole body being super tense. When you have time to spread your wings and do things that you enjoy by yourself or with friends, you come to appreciate the other things in your life. Group Black's collective includes Essence, The Shade Room and Naturally Curly. Im the furthest thing from a lazy mom. Am I nit picking or being a complete bit**?? I hope things improve for you.. so sorry you have to deal with this! Kylie, I couldnt agree more with your comment. I was embarrassed. I think its unrealistic to expect chores to be done perfectly with both parents working w 2u2. Even if the abuse is only verbal, it can lead to physical violence. But if you are just waiting for him to agree with you, then you must do whatever it is you want to do and he will have a choice about whether to stay with you, or to leave. As miserable as I feel most of the time, I am also angry. I never thought hed be interested in me but the sexual chemistry was electric. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts, creepy pedo posing as an OT/speech therapist. He may not know how to tell you hes not confident enough. It coincided with the pubs opening, so a gang of us went out for a proper catch-up. With all the changes going on with her body, a pregnant mom can get insecure. i was annoyed with him breathing the other day. Encourage your husband to speak with his family about a . Yessss!!!! As far as risk of separation and divorce, I believed the odds to be low. Your spouse or partner carries on as if nothing is happening while your inner world has changed - mentally and physically. He'a verbally and emotionally abusing you and I hope you see this. We ended up writing out a contract of how to conduct ourselves around one another and each party signed it. What an ass!!! Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. I just want out. He makes me feel I have to give him an accounting of everything I do when I leave the house. You need to give it 110% of your effort at times to make each other happy. I can hear the pain in her words, but I also suspected she was in need of venting. This can break any marriage apart. Im 8 weeks pregnant and I cant stand my husband. No wife should feel like they have to make love to their husband just because he wants it. Couldve written this myself lol. A Group Owner is a member that has initiated the creation of a group to connect with other members to share their journey through the same pregnancy & baby stages. A man should love his wife and the woman should love him as they do them own selves. Also wants me to buy big thing like a 2700 dollar treadmill now he wants a different bike, he says the one we have is a piece of junk but I have no problem with it. Either the abuse ends, or the marriage does. If not checked, such little annoyances can grow to be larger problems. Bathtub left on top of the sink. 2005-2023Everyday Health, Inc., a Ziff Davis company. He controls everything and I feel trapped and used. You feel frazzled, and your husband is just chilling out. Once you both build positive communication skills, all the other problems become easier to solve. My 16 month old is sick and cutting a lower canine so she's super whiny and I totally take out my frustration on my hubby. A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. Just getting your story out there and unloading your pain and fears can be therapeutic in itself. There were three things missing from their relationship and for things to get back on track, they needed to immediately address each one. I cant believe this blog coached her to stay with a controlling, emotionally abusive person. Hes just pissed off because he has to go to work while you are at home taking care of yourself and baby - Hes the lazy pig and being childish - its not because you are at home that you are his slave and have to do everything - how dare he call you names ! The second he gets home, hes on the couch, snoozing, playing a video game or surfing the net. He wont resume the conversation, no matter what. If you cant stand the sight of your husband and feel miserable about being married to the man you once thought would be your Prince Charming, then in most cases you have your work cut out for you. For the shedding - yup, I hear you lol. If you are having problems then you need to talk them through with your husband as . All rights reserved. What to Expect supports Group Black and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. What is our biggest communication problem? I am like his play thing. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. It seems that men can quite happily enjoy sex with women they seem to enormously dislike in every category except physical attraction. Me too, if Im honest. MEG REMY: Because of how it sounds, how it starts.It hits. I have a 1 year old and I'm 8 weeks pregnant.I don't know if it's because I'm extra tired or what but with my first pregnancy I wasn't such an asshole. It drives me crazy. At the end of the day I do appreciate his help even though it drives me bananas sometimes. Maybe he doesnt either. No doubt you suffer from the same lack of understanding that so many men do how physically and emotionally horrible it is for a woman to have sex when she isnt turned on or with a man she doesnt want to be with. However, some men are not interested in taking care of daily tasks. Now is a different story. Like how do you think I do it every si gle day when youre not around and laundry and dishes and everything else is done around here!?? I know these hormones can make us emotional, make us not feel well, and even make us "crazy", but sometimes we need to suck it up and give our husbands so love too. With the right commitment and effort, you may be able to revive the energy and restore the connection with your husband. After a few glasses of wine I was flirting. He didnt realize until we discussed it so its possible your hubby just doesnt know how taxing it all is on you. I'm extra snippy and in the annoyed "you just don't understand" phase. However, if the caring and support is only going in one direction, from you to him, and you never get to be the priority, it doesnt look like a mutually loving relationship it looks like you are being a martyr. We have 2 under 2 and life has been so stressful lately. But before doing so, I explained it was critically important that she sit down and tell him the truth of her feelings and talk about these three areas of their marriage they needed to make progress in. Anything good has gone, and I get nauseous at the thought of having to see him after work. And when females no longer view their male partners as being positively emotionally connected we quite often lose all desire to have sex with them. My doctor put me off work due to being a high risk pregnancy. One of the guys hadnt been working with us for long but he came along too. To tease this out, let's consider your grievances with your father's wife. This is my second pregnancy and I have to really bite my tongue as he really irritates me and I have zero libido when it comes to him, don't get me wrong, I get horny and keep having these steamy dreams, I just don't want to have sex with him. Apr 23, 2016 at 5:53 PM. NO ONE should tolerate being treated the way he is treating you. Ive finally accepted that I made a huge mistake and am ready for divorce. 22/03/2020 08:26. That would have been really intense. My husband will bathe the baby and our 6 year old and leave their clothes on the floor. So I explained she needed to have a heart to heart discussion with her husband and convince him that the tighter he tries to hold on to her, the worse it is for both of them. But the occasions in which she felt miserable in her marriage where far too frequent and she wanted to know what she could do about it. Thank you for this insightful article. Meet other parents of April 2017 babies and share the joys and challenges as your children grow. When my anger calms down Ill let him know my feelings. R ecently I heard from a lady who came to me in tears telling me she can't stand her husband. Many men think of sex as a physical way of gaining and giving pleasure to their wife. At least he's there for you and by your side. I completely agree. But I'm told it's just hormones so after baby's born everything will be back to normal. Well, I talked about this in this post if you wish to gain some greater insights, https://www.marriagerecovery.com/did-i-marry-the-wrong-man-for-me/. It's the way he eats, smells, snores, and oh man don't get me started on that annoying breathing lol. I wanted to strangle my husband during the first trimester. Tell me why this one kicks off the album. If youre looking for more clarity, look at the following examples. You wish it were easier to talk about things that frustrate you. I've totally not finished cleaning a room because I've gotten tired or even distracted by one of the kids. Omg, wow. I'm almost 17 weeks pregnant and seriously wondering if I should leave my husband. I feel so hollow still. I went out after work with some colleagues during our first week back in the office after lockdown. Men are just as capable as women. It is time to break this cycle of love and obey; you can just love. Lol. He always tries to have female escorts, he . Come home and kiss that man! For more helpful information please hit up our beautiful rules wiki! He helps a lot with the kids but everything he helps with is left a mess. You might find yourself not only uninterested in sex but averse to him even touching you. Defeating Divorce is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to Amazon.com and any other affiliate sites. Our team of talented and qualified writers provide helpful solutions to todays most prevalent relationship concerns. My girlfriends tell me he is causing me terrible emotional damage and said they will take me in. explains. But he hasn't done anything wrong! We have very different ideas of what our partnership should be and no amount of talking, explaining how I feel, acknowledging his feelings, ever seems to change anything. They may feel more at ease letting you do it all. Work used to be my escape, my chance to be with other people, but since the pandemic hit, Ive been working from home and this is now permanent. Clearly, his behavior represented a selfishness in the marriage around controlling her time. But don't expect to . Add some life to your marriage and reconnect with each other. Things didnt just fall apart for us immediately. All they know is that if they are not getting it, they are unhappy and will tend to hold it against you. If he is coercing you to never change things or otherwise forcing you to live a life you dont wish to lead, then you need to get out or get him out and keep the children with you. But now I can barely resist not running out the door, leaving him forever. I dont want to lose him, but how long do I go on being unhappy in myself? Divorce is only changing one set of problems for another. Talk about the importance of being kind to each other when you are together. In other words, an extremely unpleasant experience for me. You are nostalgic for your 17-year-old self and your summer of love. 679215 Registered office: 1 London Bridge Street, London, SE1 9GF. We have 2 under 2 and life has been so stressful lately. I feel like a total a**hole sometimes because despite his patience and sense of humor toward my pregnancy craziness, sometimes I just can't stand him! Symptmes de grossesse ne jamais ignorer, Moyens naturels pour dclencher l'accouchement. But when speaking with her I learned that she was going through a bad spell and wanted to lash out at her husband every way she could and portray him in the most negative light because she was feeling so hopeless and angry at that moment. Who cleans half the kitchen? and he does the same for me. No. The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. Note that once you confirm, this action cannot be undone. Share kindness, support and compassion, not criticism. but if we don't finish something because we're tired, we're going to bed. I don't want him to touch me, talk to me or anything! Especially if he really hasn't done anything to upset you. However, he had changed (or so I thought) and I. Both husbands and wives enjoy relaxation time. If the shoe was on the other foot & the husband said this about the wife , YIKES!!! Some husbands work a lot because their job is demanding. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. I hear this loud and clear! Just imagine how you would feel if he started being mean to you for no reason that was in your control. I got that problem too. would be the equivalent of a man sleeping with the most unattractive woman in his city. I hope it's hormones but I feel some days I could leave this man and never turn back!! Jennifer is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a passion for helping couples struggling within their marriage, relationship, or during the divorce process. OMG so glad I'm not the only one! In a marriage -compromise, consideration and conversation are the three Cs Im going to reflect on. Reminder to all: watch out for a creepy pedo posing as an OT/speech therapist giving fucked-up potty-training advice, and don't sweat it if your post gets 1 or 2 instant downvotes. He needs to stand up for you when people treat you poorly. Being significantly overweight or underweight is also known to disrupt fertility. He is rude, critical, immature and entitled. But when I told my husband, he seemed cool about it instead of going mad at me. If I could just have a sliver of hope I would be so grateful. I would even suggest talking with a third party if things get worse. Like why is it helping to do half a task and make more messes? Im hoping you have more agency over your life at 37 than you did at 17. Some husbands don't feel comfortable standing up to their families, which creates tension in their marriages. For further details of our complaints policy and to make a complaint please click this link: thesun.co.uk/editorial-complaints/, I got pregnant from a drunken one-night stand after an evening out, My husband was shocked I was pregnant but supportive and understanding, I felt full of regrets straight after the one-night stand with my colleague, Denise Welshclaimssexual cheating wasn't as bad as emotional infidelity on Loose Women, My fiancee refuses to apologise for jibe about my brother's fiancee's wedding dress, Frankie cheats on Anne while she's away on holiday, Independent Press Standards Organisation (IPSO). Everything he does makes me want to strangle him. If you're seriously considering divorcing him, I'd get into some therapy. If you ask a couple about sex and affection, most people will respond and feel differently. Oops. ;). He was shocked but supportive and understanding. I, too, have done all of the above-mentioned things, and frankly Id be offended if someone insinuated that it somehow means Im not a good enough partner, wife, mother, etc. He just strongly preferred she stayed home with him. I completely agree with all of the above. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. Create an account or log in to participate. Let alone clean while theyre exhausted!! Sex, erotic, and greater frequency. I actually got mad at him about it, and he helped put it into perspective. I was the same as you. I feel like I want to hide from him or escape. I see other posts about women loving and enjoying the pregnancy with SO. You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page. 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