The woman you marry gets excited about marriage and starting a family with you. It is so sad, they block love sometimes for all the wrong reasons. Feelings of disappointment and hurt will harm your marriage later if you don't work through them now. People have every right to want what they want in a mate,..within reason. They need to evaluate if this man is worthy, if he will stick around, if he will man up and assist her in raising the child or at the very least pay child support. idc if im broke or rich or how your feel in a bed room or how i look its my intellect that should make u be willing to be with me or my compassion or my intentive attitude towards you when a women has a mutiple relations with different men she has a lot of comparision to the man she is involved with and then women wonder why the are single mothers? It All in all if you truly love someone I think it shouldnt matter. Either way we can just agree to disagree. No one is saying you have to date us. I won't mind the number of partners if she is physically attracted to me. It is what it is, but the most important part is your STD FREE!!!!! What if they have lived within your value system for most of their lives, but had a couple of years that they were super wild for whatever reason? Then she hit me with the old.Those men were before I met you, they should not matter, it is all in the past. So if he is in a relationship that he feels is the best he ever had, and everything is great, but then she reveals the number. If they are still like that and this doesnt play well in your life, move on. If she kept running women you slept with, Im sure shed be embarrassed to be with you as well if she has respect for herself. Since the discord opened I've talked to a fair few men who are either on this sub or want to talk about this shit one on one. Shadow Hunter-Stay in Touch. I have actually come Men just want Women to stay loose, so they can keep getting laid daily! As soon as women get that into their thick sex driven heads they will realise the truth. Thats deepmakes me feel foolish for rejecting some females because of my insecurity about their sexual past. We are happy. I understand where you are coming from but we do not agree on this topic. I have NEVER met a secure, balanced, confident woman who could just have sex, get up, leave, and feel happy never seeing the person again. N get money. You stated How you view intimacy, and love, and sex matters. well what holds more weight, their current view or their past views? Nah, I would like somebody who had value for themselves like I did. Burn it. JOGOS DE HOJE. Because I love him too much to have him leave me over my past like those other men have. Marriage can't be only about sex. So Stephan following your argument, if you would find a woman who 5-10 years ago had a gangbang and half of the town where you live had sex with her but now she is a very nice woman and has changed her values, you will embrace her and take her as your partner without having any problem or concern? enjoy has lead to a downward spiral in the family, out of control divorce . She obviously had not displayed any of the 5 issues you laid out (at least she hasnt shown it one bit). Judgment rules every single day in every aspect of life. Master Age: 48 , mho 32%. Peace. For me it was a shock should I care? And women can go a long way in updating the image of women in society. Thats a load of crap! Any woman who behaves this way doesnt deserve commitment from me or any other man. I sometimes dream about it, feel sad etc. No, they dont. Sex isnt an act that comes with an inherent morality- the ethical implications of sex all depend on the context. many people feel and learn otherwise. Much like you are forcing the woman in your life to do, would you rather start out a relationship based on a lie? Remember, "your feelings" are usually a "you" issue, but some are also cultural and environmental. Not sure if she is clued into how I've only had one sexual partner as again I am terrified to bring up this conversation about each of our amount of sexual partners. But to think you cant find anyone compatible with you is B-S. People use the word perfect as an excuse to not have to live up to any expectations. These men typically have low self-esteem, cannot get better, are older and desperate, or simply have no other options. Nothing sums it up better, I wish I could sit down and heave beer with you. Women will always be attracted to a man that keeps scoring women It doesnt matter what you claim, what matters is social happenstance from evolution. Instagram. Youre doing the right thing, love beats all just think how you would feel looking back at now when youre on your death bed about to pass onto the other realm. Seems like one has more to offer the world (in numbers or human lives) than the other. So clearly Im not assuming old-fashioned = not a slut. When it happens be okay and know we are allowed our voews on whom we want to settle with How you view intimacy, and love, and sex matters. To ride is free. That being said, if they are not willing to work this But I notice that its mostly inexperienced and insecure men who seem to be the most concerned about it. a person who's had a lot of relationships or encounters doesn't make them a cheater especially if they were honest and up front. Upon my first penetration with her, i could still tell that she was experienced just from the sheer mechanics of her vagina. I understand your position, but I do not agree that it is the best approach. (Lets assume TONS is much larger than LOTS). I say how many men she has slept with should not matter. So this research would directly indicate that the women who sleep with the most men and marry late have the lowest divorce rate. I'm looking for ways to reflect on this situation so I can movie forward in not let my toxic behavior leak out. There really is no advice. Who has moved. Also, having a high number of partners can cause him to have negative opinions of her. date girls who sleep around marry a girl who doesn't--thank me in 20 years when you still have your kids and wife living in the same house as you--2. By Samantha Daniels, Contributor That should only matter! 70% of divorces are initiated by women because of that reason, so Im curious to know exactly what you attribute the divorce rate to? My girlfriend of 8 months told me in the beginning of the relationship she had only been with 2 other men which were her past relationships. In addition, the divorce rate in my country of Canada is lower than it is in the US, and we have a more sexually permissive culture as well. the women do to. choose the best possible man, or to be exact, provider. Better yet, have u ever been judged or discriminated otherwise? My life was so hard because of my sexual freedom so I want her life to be much easier than mine and easier would be for me to teach her to not express her sexuality and to just hold out as long as possible. One would have to define perfect first. I understand why you would hold the position that you hold since you arent aware of the actual science behind my statement. Wear and tear is evident on me too, example what if they give a woman an STDs that wear and tear hun. with.. If she is raped, she is at fault and will be executed period. Its not right for one gender and wrong for the other. Im not bitter, Im BETTER andin retrospect, I can say this: as a man, it is impossible for me to love a woman more than I trust her. While you are Dating or trying to marry a woman who have lived life and around 35+ age and then you realized you are just a number and may be not. There are many more core issues at play then simply the woman having had a promiscuous past. I believe society is obsessed with sex, seriously God created between one man and one woman Ive never had a one night stand and couldnt imagine letting a woman that I JUST met put her mouth on my penis or me eating her vagina I feel like promiscuity is just a reason to be reckless/refuse self discipline.. open your mind to what the article is trying to say and you may start to look at things differently. Statistics do not lie. 2023 Applicants - do you understand how student finance works? Fortunately for me he had an affair Trust me, there are men married to or in a relationship with women they think has had very few sex partners, when in reality the numbers are much higher than he will ever know. (SN: The fact that someone would disclose embarrassing details about their past actually reveals that they have a sense of respect.). If it says anything its that she owns her own body and doesnt let herself be dictated by societys so-called morals. Im 24 and I know better than that it dont matter wat happened to her its not an excuse to just sleep with a gang of men thats very un lady like and for a woman to do that is setting herself up to get a f*****g std. Its safe to say that we feel/felt that way about each other. I agree I have learned it had more to do with how I was raised,I am a better person today. Why can a man act one way, and be a male whore, but as soon as a women states anything in reference to men and sex, she is a whore? It encourages an atmosphere of male entitlement. In this latest study, women who have had one partner instead of two are about 5 percentage points happier in their marriages, about on a par, Wolfinger says, with the boost that possessing a four . Past promiscuity is not what causes a marriage to fail in my opinion. Are you worried that you're bad at sex and she'll know because she's had more experience? Some may argue that it speaks to her character. That is all we need to continue our happy lives. If you express those feelings to her in a hurtful way (because they are abusive) she's gonna bail on you. Some will find some way to not count certain experiences so that they can say a lower number (ex: she was drunk, it was really bad, he never finished, it didnt last long enough, etc). Probably not while having sex with her either. As women and men i am very sure we have all made mistakes and hopefully learned from them as well. I feel like I'm just in her head sometimes lmao. So I take it that you would have no problem dating a former child rapist? And I wouldnt ignore the past in a realtionship either. Who you allow inside yourself matters. I am pointing out that sex is vastly different for men and women.. That is how we are made.. She's independent, classy, carries herself well, acts like a lady, has standards for who she sleeps with, doesn't disclose unnecessary information about her sex life, and she certainly doesn't let men disrespect her, because she respects herself. Report. I hope you come in awareness. You can question the theory of evolution, or gravity, or anything else, but your questioning doesnt impugn their validity. To finally find a person you connect with, is it really best for you to move away from that because of a number. I accepted the same level of acceptance i had with him. Very true, plenty of sluts attempt to hide their sluttiness through subterfuge, yet they inevitably give off tells. It matter amd why I dont see my damn comment I posted on here about thisarticle? Education can do wonders! 3) Psychological and Emotional problems (Most of the time promiscuous people are wildly insecure about themselves and or bad judges of character) If u had slept with a hundred men would u have wanted anyone to judge u? Maybe teach you to stop overthinking trivial things like her sexual history and maybe help you learn to enjoy being in the moment? My opinion on how many people is too many: Since people Also consider that all people who engage in a lot of casual sex have higher rates of depression and low self-esteem and lower rates of life satisfaction. I know plently of them. The amount of partners a person chooses to share themselves with sexually reflects on that persons character and values. Sorry, no thanks. Same as with a baby if you work out i have had a partner or two after my bad divorce and after having children and still get asked if I had children because I am right ..I personally think it depends on how the person is made idk..what do I know though .. Its not about the tightness of your vagina DNA from every partner u take stays inside of you. (sorry so long lol just trying to get you the most info). People are unable to act outside their own nature. I have always been happy go lucky and respectful of myself. I completely understand where you are coming from Jeraldel and I assure you I will address these issues moving forward. Its fucking difficult to deal with no matter how much you love them. FloralHybrid. They give birth. One can only act so long before the truth comes out. Because mens focus on a It's also possible she has a crazy high libido, which if you build a commited relationship, can really come in handy when you start getting older and other men are in the "dead bedroom" phase, because they wanted to marry a virgin, who happened to have a very low libido, which made it easy for them to stay a virgin. Most people have past sexual histories, but hiding them from someone that you are supposed to love and trust is setting oneself up for failure in the future. Men spread seed and women try to attract the best seed they can find. All of the feminists and white knight's pretending that men are applauded for sleeping around do not live in the real world. Times may have changed in some perspectives but evolution is a long process and these inbred instincts are deeply rooted which is why most men will have sex with a slutty girl, but will never marry or commit to her. However, promiscuity is not gender based. Hope you can shed your toxic/red pill/PUA thoughts and beliefs. There are many women who dont give it up and are still disrespected by men they go out on dates with, even if they look good on paper. Exactly act like a slut then oh now i want a good man. And dont assume that the men who play arent still looking for a relationship but last time I checked, the feel of a women is a helluva lot different than a hand job at midnight and will therefore satisfy that itch while they find the one. He is allowed to his opinions and values as much as u are allowed to your body God did not create us to be WHORES, and I am referring to both Men and Women. Do you expect that guys would find equally as desirable and attractive as a life partner the woman who has slept with 100 men, as the woman who has been with 8? Dont hold a value for the women youre looking for that you dont practice yourself. Or why jobs do background checks or the existence of credit scores. Think about if we applied such a infantile The fact remains that the women with the lowest divorce rate in our liberal Western culture (not an alien culture or religion) are those who are more educated, higher income earners and marry later. Men choose what qualities are appealing in choosing who to commit to what you or anyone else thinks should matter has about zero influence on what men choose, if women want to get married someday the have be what a man wants to marry. But what about men? Sleeping around might be related to testosterone in both sexes. Im also comfortable with myself and my happiness is not determined by whether or not I have a partner. (multiple boards, articles studies etc) evince its importance. You cannot truly understand or know a person until you know just about everything. I have found that the most insecure women are the most sexual. Ive always been that way since I started having sex. it just kills me that women be the main one judging other women. If I was looking for a Woman, I DO care about her past, and she should care about mines. The first onewasvery faithful loyaland gave no other man any indication that he had any shot with her while the other flirtedetc and didnt see anything wrong with it because she hadnt had sex with anyone. Theres nothing special about having a turn with a town bicycle. Neighbor, as long as you carry that deeply engrained mindset you will have nothing but uphill battles in all of your personal romantic relationships. Denna-nenna-nent-nent-denna-nenna-nenna-nenna-Denna-nenna-nent-nent-denna-nenna-nenna-nenna Ma-Ma-Ma-My Sharona!. Smh Of course Im gonna take the car with the less mileage on it. I think at the end it all comes to self respect I dont think a woman who shares herself with anyone who gives her attention will be able to commit to a monogamy relationship It is just against the nature of herbehavior, you cant pretend to have adifferentvalue system regarding sex (how you call it in your post) and then embrace monogamy and change that values all over again Other topic I would like to suggest you analyze is the fact that if a woman has slept with 100+ men for example what is the difference between getting married to that woman that to a prostitute? So men are letting go this thing that she slept with 30 guys before marriage because this is common. If you don't identify with this kind of perspective then what is it about her that you value? There can be comparison issues, less patience due to what they have experienced previously, and a bunch of other stuff I will address in a future post. Ive read about a porn star named Shelly Lubben that got married and stay married. Anything you know is toxic? Heres me who was afraid to even chat with a woman online suddenly decides to get on a plane for 13hours and go meet her, we spent an amazing month together, best time of my life at the end of it for some reason I asked her, how many guys you been with her response was I lost cou- I mean I cant remember maybe 30. And generally, its women that are exploited yet praised, used and then ridiculed for being sensual, sexual, whole human beings not the men. I always thought about meeting that one person and never wanted my sexual activity to come between us. Its an individual thing as to how they perceive themselves. If she has had just a single partner before me, it could be hard to find out whether she is still in love. The Era of female double standards is drawing to a close. So ..does it have something to do with how many men u have slept with??? they resort back to their network of past sex partners, or start going Employers, colleges, every institution we have asks about past because it matters. A girl who worked with us during the trip said "come here, I want to show you something". And I find monogamy more fulfilling than anything else. Your email address will not be published. And some dudes value the experience of a woman who has been around. For good or bad Being forced to settle for a woman who has been ridden like the town bike, and shared her body with dozens, if not hundreds of men is very weak, and very low-standard. Men still are conscious of disease and do not want a woman who has been Negative because men come in all different shapes and sizes so the wear and tear would never change when sleeping with the same male 100 times. Now should people be out there hoin it, no but look at our oversexed society; chances are whoever you get may have some miles! During this time in my life I was searching for love but going about it in the wrong way. but not an automatic deal-breaker. Altamera74, from a chicks point of view, you are going to end up a very sad and lonely man if you take that sort of attitude into your life when it comes to choosing a partner.. I have yet to meet a woman that has had more than 50 sex partners and was in a solid, healthy, balanced, loving relationship. If they say they dont feel secure in the relationship, If you sleep around it shows your unstable and dont take relationships serious. And since passing on your genes is the most important thing, he is attracted to women most able to get pregnant. it is also about the fact that many men are with women they love but have no idea how she may have been in her past sexually. I continued to live. If she's interested, there's clearly no problems from her end. your lover, and if people on the market for dating were products, your value He is the Lion and the Lamb. How do you think we feel? I, of course, agree that other factors contribute to failed marriage. If she does, thats okay! The number is certainly not all that matters. These women oftenhave a very nontraditional view of the way a woman should carry herself in a relationship. By your logic, if we make no judgments on our potential mates, and the past doesnt matter, it should not matter if our potential mate was a child rapist for 20 years, as long as s/he isnt currently raping children. However, you chose to explain a womans promiscuity with abuse, mental issues, and low self-esteem. So now u, a faithful man, deal with this truth and your surroundings are people fixated on sex. Who you choose to share it intimately with matters. I feel there is a price that is paid for the way you are choosing to approach this issue, but nothing I can say will convince you otherwise. may get a good friend out of getting to know that person. Like legitimately, tell me why it matters. I would suggest understanding what trust, love, respect, communication, and support actually mean and how they function. up a****le (Jerkwhatever feels right at the time. I myself agree with not judging a future mate depending solely on the number of past partners. interact. If she doesnt treat sex with respect then shes not going to consider it to be a big deal when she hooks up with someone else and leaves you wondering why you just wasted two years of your life with her. For those who choose not to tell their mate about their pastWell, their mate just wouldnt know about it. So its cool to wife up a porn star? I could go on forever but Ill stop here. Shadow Hunter-December 12, 2022. Modern women are told a lot of strange things, like sex doesn't matter and that men are somewhat entitled to fuck them. Labeling them as whores and not worthy of a relationship isnt going to resolve the real problem here. That's what these things do. I have seen women who may have once been viewed as hoes be the most faithful in a relationship. YOU yourself are ashamed of what you did. If you two currently do not agree on those things, by all means walk away. At the end of the day we all have to decide what is most important. Its not about the sex. So, wat about da age do it matter? Even though maybe I shouldnt call them ignorant since I dont know them but in my opinion everyone is ignorant in some type of way. I hope you are able to get your anger issues under control. You are the choices you make and the life you live. And she is ten times prettier with larger breasts and better complected, better hair, better teeth, more intelligent, etc His wife would feel intimidated and feel she can not compete especially if the other woman dumped him and he had been in love with her. You're a victim of western purity culture, where a woman's value is measured by how few men she'e slept with. you may have some serious issues and I would say that its too many. You live and you learn and then hopefully you do better, so if someone has slept with 99 different people, that doesnt mean there doesnt come a point in their lives where they are ready to settle and be in a committed relationship with just one. If being old-fashioned for a woman means not being a slut, then old-fashioned will always be in style when men look for a mate to settle down with. Oh yes it does. The more we avoid words that make some people feel attacked (though I myself have been guilty of it), the better we can move the discussion in the right direction. I am the type that wants to get to know a women before I date her. And them giving it to you doesnt have to mean they were cheating. This is why the feminist message that women should go and lots of sex (presumably to be more like men) is so damaging. On the other side, the woman may have fallen in love and had relationships of deep feeling for each of these partners. But here is what i do care about, how I get treated based on what she has gone through her past. Ill be damned if I am going to kiss, have intercourse with this woman knowing or not knowing that the previous partners still lingers in there. I think you are not getting the point of this article. Dude, you better check yourself before you mess yourself! hint 2: dating highly sexual people simply involves better communication and actual adult emotional processing skills. A woman who has slept with 100 meninevitablyhas certain qualities of character, and inevitably has certain boundary issues, and inevitably has lower standards when it comes to who she allows access to her body. Have you heard of Google? I understand more and more why God restricted it to marriage. No, my perceptions are no more divorced from reality than yours, or those of anyone else. I mean you right we shouldnt judge by tha way Im a lady but come on get real please no matter wat you say a woman first of all sleeping with over 20+ men shouldnt expect to be in a healthy good relationship with a man who hasnt slept around like she does this article is ridiculous for real cause you didnt mention that a woman should be a woman and have respect for her body and self-respect as a woman period. You are the very reason Stefan was inspired to write this article. Manifesting The Man and Life God Has for You (The Course), Manifesting The Man and Life God Has for You (The Membership), Manifesting The Man and Life God Has for You (Course), Manifesting The Man and Life God Has for You (Membership), Cheat code to a fulfilling long lasting relationship. The amount of people Ive had And, if many guys were blatantly honest with themselves and others, they would probably admit to being more promiscuous than their significant others. and dont forget life is a stinky bitch, you call your friend in your house and he happened to be one of your wifes exes. Nothing wrong with knowing who she was with in the past, but understand and respect who she has become in the present. Women have those same urges as well. Awesome! 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